I always viewed being a woman as a blessing. Being a woman is a challenge, every day a new fight to win and I love me a good challenge.
The day you are born you are fighting for the love and attention of your parents and you live life from their eyes and then you grow up and fight with them so they can give you your own space to experience life on your own, the challenge of having your first crush and feeling like the whole world knows your secret or the time you got your first period and you started running to your mom’s comfort asking what on earth is happening and you find out its mother-nature congratulating you for not getting pregnant (thank you mother-nature your gift is all over the place :9) or the honour of being a mother and spending 9 month bonding with your child before he is even born. Not many people are lucky enough to experience all those moments who shape us up into wonderful successful ladies.
Unfortunately, in this era, not everything is Rainbows and sunshine, we live in a time where women are raped, disrespected, abused and not given their simple rights such as education. Now in 2017 still some people think that a women’s job is to say yes and pop kids out, but still, women’s rights are one of the important issues that we are fighting for and am flattered, but I believe that when it comes to rights there is no female and male there is only HUMAN. I believe that we should think of each other as Human when it comes to rights because I know that some of these problems can happen to any gender, so we can’t solve half the problem only we can’t solve the female education problem and don’t solve the problem of that boy who we can save by giving him his simple rights like education maybe we should stop looking at the empty side of the glass and maybe look at the full glass if we want world peace.
” when it comes to rights there is no female and male there is only HUMAN.”
I always heard the saying “treat people the way you want to be treated” so tell me if you disrespect abuse and hurt a human does that mean you want me to hurt, abuse and disrespect you? In court the judge never sentence a murder depend on their gender they get sentenced according to what they did and that’s the way you should treat people for example, you reading this post and in your mind you are probably some of you may think “shame on you how can you say female right is not important ” I never said that what am saying is women’s rights are human’s right so to be a feminist you should be a humanist and respect to be respected and that the human race is the most important race you will ever join so be in it to win it.
I already talked about love and all that boring things I know and I don’t want to give you a headache with all that (can you blame a teenager :D), but I was watching a romantic series and like any girl(or at least most girls) I was rooting for the bad boy to get the girl and not the good guy and my mind was like wtf you doing like that’s not logical but my heart was like rooting and making up ship names and then I stopped and thought why? Why are we girl always attracted to the bad boys?? Why don’t we give a chance for a good boy?? Is it there bad boyish attitude or their leather jacket?? Are we the reason why any good boy turns bad?? Idk, I think it’s time for you guys to tell me your opinion
Hey it’s been a while or maybe it’s even the first time I talk to you heart to heart, I realized something today and I had to write you a letter so first let me just tell you a story so for a while I have been feeling really lonely and just like a broken cassette player that repeats everything my life was literally waking up , going to the washroom, eat, watch some series , more eating then to add spice have a fight with my family and to add double the spice I start to feel absolutely sad about my life and repeat the next day just wishing that Tomorrow somehow the cassette will get fixed or if am lucky I get a new one and start recording new stuff which is under my control. I always go to bed thinking “okay tomorrow am going to fix this” and never do until I burst into tears one day and started to re-introduce myself to you I made new rules, kicked out people who were “Negative” and even started to make friends but that didn’t go so well too because I thought they will fill up the emptiness inside of me. don’t get me wrong some good had come from this journey I was able to adapt to my situation and started owning my feelings and not just ignore them, but I never realized that for me to make friends and be “social” I have to be friends with someone who’s with me 24/7 YOU, YES YOU RAZAN “ I can’t give love if I don’t have love “ that’s a saying I always hear but never believe it was always a cute quote that I tweet but never believe until now, so am here now to say hey would you be my friend and I want to promise you something:
1) I would feed you all day (#teamfood)
2) I will learn to love you and understand you
3) I will treat you the way I want people to treat me
They say if you want something ask for it and I want a happy life so I have to start with being happy with You so the universe can attract happiness to my life and hey I know you want to be my friend because you always try to get my attention by being against me so now let us be one team and achieve whatever we want and for the first time I want to say I am in the way of saying I LOVE YOU so stay by my side
Lots of love
I’m the air you breath and the sun that shines your life am your moth…. Okay, now I need to stop.
I’m Razan and am also a teenager who has a lot in her heart and just want to talk and express, am a student who wants to learn about life and not solve one more find “X” equation because The bigger “X” is my life. They teach you how to solve “X” equation, but they can’t even teach you how to solve the bigger “X” (Your life). Before all of that is a human who is trying to find their purpose and ace it.
I am going through a phase where I just felt empty, useless, and just lonely so I’m here to express and impress, I’m here to heal and feel, I’m here to prove that I can do and will ace in something.
You see LOVE is a hard subject to talk about cause everyone has a different opinion and definitions for it yes definition with an “S” cause love is not only loving someone special. You can love a robot or to travel or even the garbage that you take out of the house every day ( okay I don’t think the last one is true) what am saying that it comes in different shapes and sizes and colors there is no right love and wrong love. LOVE IS JUST LOVE
Now you should be thinking aren’t you the love believer and the romantic?? Yes, I am but that got me nothing other than heartbreaks and losing a lot of money on makeup to cover those black circles. I can’t sit here and be like love is the greatest thing on earth cause sometimes it sucks and it’s hard to actually believe in love cause man am a person who needs affection it hurts when one of my friends that I truly love and admire is not giving me the attention and love I give them ( btw for you people who think love is only for lovers boy get out of here without my homegirls love I would be nowhere !! Who is gonna curl my hair and marry me and let me embrace my lesbian side ?? ) and it hurt when my baby aka my phone breaks I would literally break up with anyone but not scratch my phone but these moments shape up who we are and stronger our immune system ( yes breaking your phone stronger your immune system SCIENCE !! ) and am not gonna say that it’s not scary to get heartbroken but don’t you think the fact that you are heartbroken means you are lucky enough to experience love ( *cough* and emotions *cough* ) I myself trying to learn that even though I got heartbroken few times that doesn’t mean that love doesn’t exist cause it does and I experience it but just the other person wasn’t the right person for that love ( boy your loss !! 💁🏽 )
I think nowadays that teens are more in love with the idea of dating more than love itself we just wanna be in a relationship just because people do it or we are in love with the unrealistic type of love aka Disney love . in real life guys don’t go around the whole country carrying a shoe and knocking doors and letting girls try it out for two obvious reasons they don’t have the money and time for that and because some girls wear the same shoe size ( mind=blown) and here where I believe in the saying love is overrated cause most people believe in happy ending and once upon time stories.
Some people say if you are in love then go and admit it to the world and let the person know this is a good advice but lemme just translate that in teens words this means “ go find a lovely quote and post it on every social media with a cute captain “ and here where you introduce the read between the lines idea . You see am even guilty of this I understand you don’t wanna face rejection and hurt your ego I get it but maybe we should keep our egos aside and just be in love cause there are 7 billion people on this planet and there is someone for you so you may get rejected today but you will be loved tomorrow.
Please share your thoughts with me and maybe answer some of my questions do you think love is real in these days ?? Does physical attraction can be called a type of love ?? And are you In love ??
You see I believe that all humans are animals secretly at least they relate to them but they are just shy to tweet it to the world. I for an instant I love wolves and it’s not only because I am obsessed with teen wolf and all the werewolf fictions I read got to my head but I think they are a beauty with brains and represent the symbol of power (for me) they are all innocent and cute with their beautiful fur and green eyes (yes am really jealous) but let them catch you and we won’t be here to finish this conversation . Plus man even singers agree with me on this, for example, Demi Lovato’s lion tattoo and even some Youtubers love and relate like iisuperwomanii (love her) is a unicorn (if she poops a rainbow then its official guys) and the world’s Simba aka Yousef Saleh Erakat (don’t get me started about the love I have for this guy) and I even stalk dog and cats but that for another reason which is 1) they are so cute and 2) they are way famous than we will ever be . no, but seriously don’t you sometimes feel like your inner wolf wants to literally get out to the world and say “hey am here”. I feel like we should let it out sometimes and just embrace it, it will give you a new level confidence that you never felt, oh btw try not get out on a full moon night (I always knew teen wolf will help me someday).